Katie Henry On Writing Humor During the Pandemic

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Mindy: We're here with Katie Henry, who is the author of multiple books. Her most recent release is Gideon Green in Black and White, which is actually her first mystery. So you have jumped genres and even switched mediums, which is, I think really important to being a writer and surviving in the industry is the ability to be adaptable. So why don't you talk a little bit about where you've been and what you've done, and how you've changed over the course of your career. 

Katie: I started out my writing life as a playwright back in high school because I was a theater kid, but I was a mediocre singer, dancer and actor. So you gotta do something. I decided what I would do was right plays, and I had a fantastic time doing that. I ended up going to college for playwriting, which if anyone is considering that, was a lot of fun, but not a whole lot of job opportunities after graduation for that. I had a fantastic time being a playwright, and I think the experience of going to art school and having that workshop experience was invaluable in learning how to take feedback and also give feedback that would be helpful to others. So I graduated with a degree in Playwriting. Job opportunities were limited there. I realized that I had been, throughout the course of college, I had only been writing about teenagers. Most of my classmates did not exclusively write about 16-year-olds in their plays. But I did. I've spent all this time writing about teenagers, maybe I should try writing for them. And I loved YA when I was a teenager, so I started reading it again, fell in love with it all over again, and decided that I wanted to try writing YA. And I wanted to try writing novels. That is basically how I got here.

Mindy:   I had to laugh a little bit to myself when you were talking about following what you love and doing what you want and getting your degree in the thing that matters to you, and then finding out you can't get a job. That's a real thing. My listeners are probably hearing this. I double majored in English literature, philosophy and religion. I learned so much, I am over-educated and unemployable. I had no desire to teach, no desire to go into any type of teaching English or any type of ministry. Both of those degrees without going on for your master's are fairly useless. I say that like tongue in cheek. Communication and empathy and all of the things that are absolutely critical to being a good writer, were all buried in there, but on a resume, I am not qualified to do much at all.

Katie: It's funny you bring up religion and philosophy, my first two books were about religion, which again, is not a super marketable topic for YA. Though I think that's changing, there are a lot more books that talk about faith and have religious protagonists or people figuring out their faith. But just like you said, doing what you love, and even once you are in a writing career, leaning into the stuff that really matters to you makes all the difference.

Mindy:   It can be hard and it can be discouraging. I actually had a long conversation last night, so I just read a book called Like, Comment, Subscribe by Mark Bergen. It is essentially the history of YouTube, and I read it out of curiosity. It was sent to me as an advanced copy and first of all, it's incredible. Everyone should read it, it's fascinating. Secondly, my initial reaction to it, my emotional reaction to it was that I got very angry. And it's not that there's no talent involved, there is talent involved, but when your job is to do un-boxing videos, this is my kid playing with a toy… I'm not saying that there's no talent involved in this, and it certainly is a time suck, but early adopters to YouTube, they were making 7 million a year. Why aren't I doing that? 

And those people get burnt out and they're working very hard and their entire private life has to be public, so I understand that there is an exchange. Don't get me wrong, but I was talking to someone about mediocrity kind of being the king of content these days and producing new content over and over and over, something just slightly different. I was just having a particularly pessimistic day as well, so I will add that, but I was definitely hitting a point where I work every day and I work so hard, and I'm sure that you do too. And I feel burnt out, and I am always trying to say the right thing or find an important topic, or be meaningful, or create art for lack of a better word, and it's like… I should just have a foot channel on Only Fans because I have great feet. I could make so much more money. Very often when we talk about the things that we love, like, these are our degrees. We wanna create art, and we want to do something meaningful. But at the same time, man, being a sell-out sounds awesome.

Katie: Yeah, it would be so great if what we found personally meaningful was also extremely lucrative. That hasn't happened to me yet, but fingers crossed. Here's hoping.

Mindy:   Is it something that you struggle with as a writer, where you sit down and you write one sentence and you're like… is that sentence right and you're just kind of staring at it?

Katie: It definitely is, and I think it is a lot more so now, when I know that a book is going to be out in the world. When it's part of a larger deal, and I know that not only does the sentence exist on my computer, but it may very well exist in a real book that actual people will read and write reviews of on Good Reads. That definitely makes me think in a way that is sometimes kind of paralyzing about - is this right? Is it doing enough? Is it saying enough? 

Mindy:   Me too, I'm very critical of myself, but I think that is of course what makes us get better all the time, continuously. When you're writing, do you write out of a place where you want to alleviate what I feel is a pretty low bar these days for entertainment, but also art? Do you want to write to that? Or are you writing for yourself? Are you writing for your readers? What are your goals personally, when you're creating?

Katie: I think I definitely write for myself first 'cause I have experience writing for someone else, it's just not as much fun and it's not as fulfilling. And if you were gonna sit down and write a 80,000-word book, you better be getting something out of it, or that is just gonna be a slog. I definitely am always writing the kinds of things that I enjoy, the kinds of things that I would want to read. Going back to what you said about writing now, this is a particularly hard time. I feel like I'm also writing with a sense of, How can I make the world just a little bit better? A little bit less bleak, in this time? All my books have varied in tone, they've all been funny or... I hope they’ve been funny. That's been the intention. And so particularly when you're writing humor, that's what you're setting out to do. I am always looking for, How could I make someone’s day a little bit more enjoyable in a time that seems particularly hard?

Mindy:   I write super dark. I write issues, I write to topics, my goal is to reach the person that also thinks about these things or experiences these things to get that feeling of, Oh, okay, I am not a freak for thinking this way, or I am not alone for feeling this way. And that brings its own form of relief. But I wanna come back to talking about humor because I think right now... Yes, we need it. It's so important. People need to laugh. And so when I say disparaging things about social media, YouTube, TikTok, whatever... Believe me, I'm on it, don't get me wrong. I am a consumer, so I'll watch cats missing their jumps for three hours, this is me.

Katie: There's nothing better.

Mindy:   My hang-up comes from the incredible amount of money that can be made that I can't. I think that's where my anger comes from.

Katie: It's not an even distribution.

Mindy:   So anyway, coming back to humor and Writing humor, I think that's the hardest thing to do. I can make someone cry. I can make you cry pretty easily, making someone laugh–I feel like that's always a pot shot.

Katie: You know, it's so interesting that you say that 'cause I felt the complete opposite way. I discovered that I liked writing humor when I was a teenage playwright. And when you're a playwright and you're sitting in the back of a theater, it's really hard to tell how the audience is experiencing your work unless they are audibly crying or unless they're laughing. It was much harder, at least for me, to make people cry, and a lot easier to make people laugh. I love that instantaneous reaction that lets me know that I have communicated with other human beings through my words. I think that's why I have always gravitated towards humor.

Mindy:   There is an amazing reward in making someone laugh. Yeah, you're speaking about your audience. I do public speaking, and even though I talk about my books and my books are not funny, my presentations always are, because I think, especially when you're speaking to teens, you have to be entertaining. And what amazes me is that I can take the same presentation and I've done them hundreds of times, I can deliver it the same way, I have the same slide saying the same lines and delivering the same jokes, nothing is changing. And there are days when I am murdering it and everyone is laughing and I'm getting DMs and tweets and emails, and people are like, Oh my God, that was amazing. You're fantastic. And then there are times when I'm up there… and there's nothing worse than pausing for the laugh that doesn't come.

Katie: Oh, yeah, absolutely. I think I almost thrive in that kind of chaos. Humor is so subjective and chaotic in that way, where you just do not know, it is hard to figure out what is going to be objectively funny and whether it's going to hit with anyone, much less a larger readership. I kind of like that challenge to be like, How can I take something that I think is funny and punch it up so that the greatest number of people will possibly find it funny? And just knowing that you can't get everyone, you will never get everyone, and sometimes people will hate your humor so much. It's actually gratifying in a different way because you have made a connection, just not the one that you intended to. 

Mindy:   I agree completely. If I can make you feel something, and I get emails, 'cause my books are hard and people die, and I get emails all the time, and people will be like, I am pissed at you. And I'm like, That's cool. The tagline for this podcast is, our job is to make people care about things that never happen to people that don't exist. And if I can make you very, very upset over the death of a person that never was alive in the first place, and if you're pissed at me about it. That's awesome, I've done my job.

Katie: Yeah, that is such a victory.

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Mindy:   Starting out with humor, that's where you were, and then you've moved forward into writing a mystery, which of course doesn't exclusively mean that you're not including humor anymore. But talk to me about that jump, talk to me about changing up there.

Katie: So it definitely is a comedic mystery. I actually think it's one of my funnier books. That was really important to me to include because something that I find is that the two genres that I feel are closest connected, and this is going to sound very weird, are horror and humor. And so thriller and mystery is included in that too, but they're both based on the element of surprise. Things make us laugh when they surprise us and things scare us when they surprise us too. And human beings love being surprised, even if we say that we don't. We love it. I went into that knowing that I wanted it to be funny and knowing that I wanted to carry some of the other things that I had done previously in more straight contemporary novels into this. But really working with the mystery element, it was really, really difficult to transition. I really love mysteries, I love reading them, and I very naively thought that that meant that I would be good at writing one. And I think eventually I did just get there, but it was a struggle. Mystery makes you level up, I feel like, and that is one of the reasons that I wanted to do it.

This is my fourth book, and I always wanna be growing as an author. If I'm lucky enough to have another book, I always wanna be doing something new and challenging myself, and I felt like every aspect of writing a mystery from the plotting to making sure there's still a character arc, and particularly in revision, when changing things, it means everything changes and clues have to be completely rearranged. It just asked me to be a better writer, a better collaborator with my editor, too. While it definitely was a challenge, I ultimately feel like I'm a much better writer for having tried it.

Mindy:   So talk to me about your process. Are you a planner? Are you a pantser?

Katie: I am such a pantser, which is another reason that a mystery was a real challenge because you can't just go into a completely flying blind. I mean, you can... And I definitely did. But at some point, you have to know where you're going. I always pretend that I'm a plotter. I feel like I lie to people, particularly my editor about that. I turn in the five-page outline, and then by the time he gets the first draft it is completely different, which he's always very cool with, which is nice. Pantsing entirely, it does not quite work for Mystery. In the same way though, I'm glad I kind of did that as a first draft because it allowed me to discover aspects to the story and to the characters that I might not have gotten if I had plotted it out more carefully as I probably should have.

Mindy:   So for the sake of the listening audience, Kaite and I actually share an editor. Our editor is Ben Rosenthal of Katherine Tegen Books. I think he's probably very accustomed to this kind of working relationship because I have turned in synopsis and outlines, and he just knows that that's just kind of what the concept might be, and I'm gonna turn in something similar in the same vein in about six months. 

Katie: And you'll have to stop me or This will turn into the Ben Rosenthal appreciation hour, but it sounds like we have a pretty similar working relationship where he gives us authors just a lot of space to discover what the book is without locking in too early. And is generally just very adaptable in what a story can be and where it can go, which I really appreciate. I feel like I don't figure out what the book is about until, I don't know, the second draft, at least.

Mindy:   I think that's fair. And I agree, Ben is wonderful. I've worked with Ben on, I think nine or 10 books now. Yeah, so we have a really good working relationship. I actually bristle when people ask me what my editor makes me change and I get almost angry about it. No, my editor is awesome, and that's not what an editor does, and you are misunderstanding the role of an editor. And for anybody that questions that, there are plenty of horror stories about editors out there, but I can say I've worked with three or four, and Ben the most often, and I've never had the experience of sending a book off and having it come back to me and the editor saying, Okay, this is what's wrong, and this is exactly how you fix it, or I fixed it for you. That's not what an editor does. And Ben is particularly good at saying, you gave me this, these are your strengths and this is the strength of this manuscript, these are the areas where it needs to work, and here are some ideas from me that I think could be utilized, and of course, I realize that you can just absolutely ignore everything I have to say and find your own way.

Katie: Yeah, yeah, I think a lot of aspiring authors or early stage career authors think of editors and even agents as sort of their bosses, and what you really quickly discover is they're not your boss. They are your collaborator, they are here to help you achieve your vision and that ultimately, this is your book, because when it's on a bookshelf, it's gonna have your name on the cover, and no one else’s.

Mindy:   I agree, ultimately, it is a team effort, and you're the author. Every editor I've ever had has always said, It's your book. You make the final decisions. I will say, in addition to what we were talking about in terms of being absolute pantsers in many ways, I enjoy the flexibility that it gives me. Yes, there is some panic and yes, there are some days when I'm just like, I have no idea what I'm doing, I have come to trust my process because I've been doing it a long time, and I haven't had it fail me yet. One of the reasons why I do enjoy being a Pantser is because it allows for so much elasticity. So in my book, that will be coming out in 2023, a murder mystery in a small town, and it is a pairing - the unlikely duo of the valedictorian, and then the girl who is going to be the first person in her family to ever even graduate from high school. When I started writing the book and when I had written the synopsis, I turned it in with my main character, the good girl, being very much like a straight arrow and I follow the rules and I'm always doing the right thing, and there is value to being perfect. And I started writing it and man, she was angry, she was an angry person.

And I was like, Dude, this is not what I expected out of you. And she was just moving through the world with a very different internal monologue than what she was showing to people. She was a good girl, and she was behaving in that manner and checking all those boxes, but her internal monologue is like, No, fuck you, fuck you and fuck you. And I was just like, Wow, girl. So, you know, she changed and it ended up, I think, in so many ways, making the manuscript so much better, making that allowance and not having a lock in for even myself about what I'm gonna do or where I'm gonna take things. That's why I really enjoy being a panster.

Katie: Yeah, and I do think there is a benefit, particularly with mysteries, to being a little bit of a pantser, because so often your protagonist doesn't really know what's going on either. In Gideon Green, he is a former child detective who is coming out of retirement to solve a case with his former best friend. Part of his character arc is realizing that he does not know everything, and as the mystery takes them on twists and turns, I think it helps get me in the headspace of not really knowing what was going on, to legitimately not really know what was gonna happen.

Mindy:   I really enjoy that. So tell us a little bit more about Gideon Green.

Katie: This is an idea that I had a long time ago when I was a teenager myself. I was thinking about how much I loved Encyclopedia Brown as a kid, those books with that wonderful child detective. But I was thinking about how long would that be cool? Because everyone in the Encyclopedia Brown universe thinks he's like the coolest kid ever. But that has an expiration date at some point. That becomes a lot less cool and a lot more off-putting and weird. I had this idea for a one-time child detective who is now 16, and because no one thinks the whole child detective thing isn’t particularly cool anymore. He has retired and instead spends most of his time in his room watching noir, which he is fully obsessed with, until his former best friend who ditched him in middle school appears at his door, wanting his help on an investigation that she's doing for the school newspaper. So reluctantly, he comes out of retirement and chaos ensues. Which is how I feel like all of my books eventually get to the place where, just chaos ensues. 

Mindy:   Chaos ensues is the best way to pitch anything. You wrote this during the pandemic, right?

Katie: I did, I did. I was going back in my email trying to find the actual date that I pitched it, but I couldn't. To the best of my recollection, I first pitched this book to Ben on maybe February 28, and then a couple of weeks later, the world completely ended. I live in Manhattan. And the world felt like it completely collapsed from underneath me as I was just starting to write this book. And my memory of writing the opening chapters of this book is sitting in my tiny New York apartment and outside the streets are completely empty, which is very weird for New York and just constant, constant sirens. That's my memory of it. And obviously, I would have preferred to be writing under pretty much any other condition, and it was horrible, a really difficult experience to be writing what almost felt like a fantasy book. I would write a sentence about how two friends hugged in the cafeteria and just burst into tears because that felt so far away from the life that I was living and I didn't know when that life would come back.

It was very difficult, but I feel like having written it during that particular time fundamentally shaped the book and what it is about. Gideon starts off as a kid stuck in his room with really nothing going on in his life except watching movies, and that's pretty much where I also was in March 2020, not through my own choice. Over the course of the book, he realizes just how much you need other people and just how valuable and magical and life-giving human connection is, and I'm not sure that it ultimately would have had that focus as a book if I had not been writing it during that time.

Mindy:   And what were the difficulties for you in trying to write something, so it's a mystery with a very deep roots in humor, when you yourself are probably really not feeling all that chuckalicious?

Katie: It was tough, but in some ways it was really nice to just say, Okay, you're going into another headspace. You are inhabiting a world that does not resemble your own world at the moment. It was a form of escapism where it was like, Okay, everything sucks right now, life is not going well, put on your headphones and for the next hour, two hours, three hours, you can be somewhere else. That was really valuable for me, and something that I'm so glad that I had, and I'm so glad that I basically had to force myself to find the joy in this book and the humor.

Mindy:   My books of course are very dark, but they also have moments of humor because you can't just hit your head against a wall all the time, you have to have a break. I always have those flashes of humor. When I hear back from people about my books, very often what I'm hearing is - they spoke to me or thank you for writing this, and I appreciate any outreach whatsoever that anybody gives me. But when I know that I made someone laugh, especially in this environment like you're talking about, I specifically tried very hard with the book that will be coming out in 2023, called A Long Stretch of Bad Days, I tried very hard to make that one funny and not just in surprising moments. There's a particular character, any time she's on the page, you know that she is going to make you laugh, and I'm like, This is what we need right now. I'm still gonna be Mindy McGinnis and I'm still going to give you a book with lots of horrible things happening, but I'm gonna try to help you laugh a little bit, too. 

Katie: I feel like in some ways YA leans more heavily towards the dark and the issue books, and obviously those books are completely needed and so important. But teenagers are also some of the funniest people I interact with ever, and I think that they want humor, they deserve humor too. It just shouldn't be just for middle grade books or just for chapter books. Humor in YA is a much needed component.

Mindy:   I agree, it's funny because I was talking to, at the beginning of the month, Marcy Kate Connolly. She was telling me that I should write middle grade and I said, That's a horrible idea. And then, but you know, I can really write a fart joke. I'm really good with farts. And she was like, then you've got it. Like, you're good. You know what I'm also really good at is dick jokes. I don't know how many dick jokes you are allowed to write, I mean none in middle grade, but I'm sure there's also a cap on YA. My mind goes weird places sometimes. So, I don't know, Teenagers can be difficult because they want dick jokes, they want sex jokes. That is the funniest thing when you're that age and raunchy humor, and believe me, I am here for it, but I also can't write a whole book of dick jokes. Much like I can't write a whole book of fart jokes for middle grade, you gotta have a little more substance there.

Katie: I have not yet found what the limit is for dick jokes. I've always wondered if I'm going to approach it, but haven't yet. My first book, Heretics Anonymous has an extended dicke joke that I cannot believe anybody let me keep. And it so divides the room like I have had people tell me, it is the funniest part of the book, and I have also seen people abandon the book at that exact moment, which is also a compliment.

Mindy:   Well, you know what, that's okay. When that happens, I always say, You know what, I didn't write it for you then. A buddy of mine, his name is Kurt Dinan, he is from Ohio. He writes humor, his book with Sourcebooks is called Don't Get Caught, and it's about a prank war in high school. And it's fantastic, so fine, but he's got a running joke, it's kind of like the equivalent of... That's What She Said, but it's -  like my balls. So if somebody is picking something up they’ll be like, Oh my God, this is heavier than I thought it would be. And they'd be like, Yeah, like my balls. 

Katie: That is great. Just like inappropriate enough, I think that's the kind of stuff that teens are gonna laugh at, their parents might not, but you know. I will say that I've never had a teenager complain about language or dick jokes, I have had many parents complain and one time, a parent found my third book, which is about stand up comedy, in the public library. And she circled every single swear word or a reference to drugs. Posted it on Facebook, and it's just like, you know what, I am so sorry. Your child has heard all of these words before, I am not the one showing this to them for the first time. Your child watches Euphoria and Riverdale, like none of this is my fault, calm down. And also who writes in a library book? Like, Come on. I don't even mind her hating swearing. But she did it in pen too, if you do that to a library book, what's wrong with you?

Mindy:   Once again, if you hate that, then I didn't write this book for you and you are not my audience. You can be angry over there by yourself and go find someone that fits what you wanna read a little bit better. I don't want to read happily ever after romances. They piss me right the hell off because I've been divorced like twice. This projects an unrealistic view of monogamy.

Katie: You're not highlighting every kiss in the book, and returning it to the library. 

Mindy:   This is misleading people about the size of most men's penises as well. We should do that, we should just start a Facebook page where it's like things that are just so inoffensive, no one would have a problem with. Me, I got a problem with the size of dicks in romance books, because you know what, not the case. Danielle Steele really set me up to be disappointed that's all. Her and Jude Devereaux.

Katie: No one is still listening. This has been like five minutes of talking about dick jokes.

Mindy:   Alright, last thing, why don't you let listeners know where they can find you online and where they can find any of your books, but especially Gideon Green?

Katie: So you can find all four of my books, including Gideon Green in Black and White most places that books are sold. You can find me at my website, which is Katie Henry dot com. You can also find me on Twitter and Instagram. I have not yet gotten on TikTok, but you can find me on Twitter and Instagram.

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R.S. Mellette, Matt Sinclair & Elephant’s Bookshelf Press on Indie Authoring & Publishing

Mindy:         Welcome to Writer Writer Pants on Fire, where authors talk about things that never happened to people who don't exist. We also cover craft, the agent hunt, query trenches, publishing, industry, marketing and more. I'm your host, Mindy McGinnis. You can check out my books and social media at mindymcginnis dot com and make sure to visit the Writer Writer Pants on Fire blog for additional interviews, query critiques and more as well as full transcriptions of each podcast episode. at WriterWriterPants on Fire.com. And don’t forget to check out the Writer, Writer, Pants on Fire Facebook page. Give me feedback, suggest topics you’d like to hear discussed, and let me know if there is someone you’d love to see a a guest.

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Mindy: So we're here today with two guests, and if you recall from a former episode with MarcyKate Connolly, we talked about AgentQuery Connect, which was a forum that was very active 10, 15 years ago, where a group of us all met, came together, and all of us have achieved different forms of success in different arenas of publishing. Today I have Matt and Robert who have had success in the indie publishing arena. That is an arena that I dabble in as well, and I wanted to have them come on and talk because Robert is an author and then Matt runs his own publishing company. So if each of you would like to just begin by introducing yourself.

Matt: This is Matt Sinclair, I'm the president and Chief Elephant Officer of Elephant Bookshelf Press. The company I formed 10 years ago, last month, it was 2012, that was our first anthology and the first short story in that anthology was written by our wonderful host, Mindy.

Robert: And Robert Mellette. I write as R.S. Mellette. The books that I have published are through Elephant’s Bookshelf Press, so I'm very happy about independent publishing as none of my stuff tends to fit in the large commercial publishing world. I'm the author of Billy Bobble Makes a Magic Wand and Billy Bobble and the Witch Hunt, the newly out, Kiya and the Morian Treasure.

Mindy: I think you make a really good point about finding a place for books that aren't necessarily fitting inside those pre-approved niches that the traditional publishing industry likes to use to do their marketing. Robert, why don't you talk about that a little bit, like what you write and why you weren't necessarily finding any traction in the trad world?

Robert: It's really weird, the traditional publishing world because you really do have to thread a needle from miles away. It's so hard, but if you just look at Kiya and the Morian Treasure, it came about because I was working on Xena: Warrior Princess, and I was writing the Xena Scrolls for the website, which was basically a way of recapping the episodes, but with modern day characters arguing about the translations of these ancient scrolls So it was kind of fun and tried to get a publishing deal with Universal. Well, Universal Merchandising was fighting it out with Universal New Media about who would own this, and I lost the fight, no deal was made. So I moved the characters into outer space and that became Kiya and the Morian Treasure.

Now, as I was getting it published, I got an agent. I was going to the editors, this was a good book, but the editors would all come back saying – I love this, but it needs a boy character. What do they always say? The girls will read books about boys, but boys won't read books about girls.  That's the line and they will not change it. No, I think what you're saying is that girls will read action books, but boys won't read romances, 'cause that's kind of what I was getting out of it, and I wasn't sticking to my guns and being all - no, I will not change my work, it's my work! 

I tried, I tried to change it. It would fall apart, I'd put it back together. I tried so hard to meet their standards. It just wouldn't work. I kept getting back – I don't know what shelf it goes on. Middle grade or YA? Its science fiction- put it on the science fiction shelf. Where’s Hunger Games? It's a very frustrating battle, and I don't bequeath those editors. They all have to keep their jobs, they all have to put their kids through school, they've got their things to do, that's their job. But they very much need a Matt Sinclair and Elephant’s Bookshelf Press to relieve that pressure valve. Because I think the audience, they don't want another forced romance, they don't want another, Oh, what boy will she choose book? They want something fresh and something new, and you need Matt to do that.

Mindy: You're right, tat old school mentality that is really entrenched, that won't budge, and there is a feeling that boys don't read books either number one, written by a women or featuring girls as characters. I'm here to tell you that's simply not true. I think trade publishing still believes it, but a lot of my readership is male. My publisher does a very good job of number one, trusting me. Number two, putting gender-neutral covers on my books. Anyone can carry around my book and read it, a boy doesn't have to feel like he's carrying around a girl book. But you're right, there are those... I don't know what shelf it goes on, that's the primary consideration, you're right. They wanna sell books, they've gotta know where they're gonna put it in the bookstore, and if it doesn't fit nicely somewhere that is a roadblock for your book. It is unfair from the creative side, but from the business side of it, it is a consideration. Matt, do you wanna talk about how the indie world can help alleviate that?

Matt: I would also say that they're not wrong. It is hard to identify which shelves books should belong to. I wish Billy Bobble, which is a really great story, I wish I had a better place to put it in terms of shelf myself. The difference is, the vast majority of what we do with Elephant’s Bookshelf Press is sell books online. And so it's a different type of shelving situation, you had Dave Chesson from Kindleprenur on recently. Quite honestly, he saved Elephant’s Bookshelf Press without him knowing it. What was then called KDP Rocket came out, it helped me better identify categories for these books, and I'm still experimenting on every single book. Like I said, we've had 10 years of publishing now, and I recently changed categories on books that I published eight or nine years ago, because there's still ways of getting these books out in front of people. There are some wonderful short stories, and short stories are a hard sell to begin with, but there are wonderful short stories that have barely gotten any readership yet, because I'm still trying to figure out what exactly is the best way to get those books in front of the right readers. 

To Robert’s point and to your point, I publish what I love, and the advantage is I have a small little publishing company, and I can choose books that might be difficult to place on the shelf. It might be difficult to market, but I really enjoyed them. I'm literally reading Kiya to my kids at bedtime right now. It is a real issue. I'm glad that I'm fitting a niche, as Robert and Mindy are saying, but I would also like to sell more copies of these wonderful books. My chief objective right now is to find more ways of getting these wonderful books in front of the readers that want them and deserve them. 

Mindy: And that is the trick when you are an Indie, because I write underneath a pen name as you know, and I think that the pall that kind of hung over self-publishing and Indie publishing for a long time has gone away. There is a lot of really good stuff out there, equally as good and some of it, if not better, then trad stuff that I come across. But the problem becomes visibility and marketing. So Robert, if you wanna talk about how that comes into play for the author on the author’s side of marketing. When you're an Indie author, what are some of the things that you have found that will work on the Indie side, and what are some things that might work for trad and don't work for Indie?

Robert: It's all the stuff that everyone has said before, you know, if you're researching how to sell your book, you've heard everything I'm about to say. But I'm telling you it's true, you have to find your platform. I 'm lucky–lucky and I worked really hard. There’s still a huge Xena fan base out there. They're fantastic. So a while back, I started joining all their Facebook groups and just saying Hi. That's the other thing. You have to be honest, you're selling a book, you've gotta get in there and say, Hey, I'm selling my book. You can't get on there and go, Hey, I'm one of you guys! Unless you are. I'm actually a fan of the fans, so I get on and say things about that, and I've been posting on there for a while. In Hollywood, this isn't a big deal, I was a featured extra on Star Trek Enterprise, so I went on to the Star Trek Enterprise fan base on Facebook and said, Hey, I'm selling a book. And this was like a year ago, two years ago. I posted about being on Star Trek and people were like, Oh my God, you're a star! And it's like, no, I was just unemployed and I have a SAG card, so I signed up.So on Enterprise, I became a thing. 

Now, it was interesting, if I tried to post about my book on the Enterprise Facebook page, it would get rejected. So I would go to my initial posts that said, Hey, I'm here to sell my book, and I happen to have been on Enterprise, and I put notices in the comments, and that would push that up to the top and then people would be able to see what was going on in the comments. So there's little tricks like that. I did spend some money, I decided, you know, if I was a deep sea fisherman, that was my hobby, deep sea fishing, and I went out and bought a boat, everybody would be fine with that. That's your hobby. I went out and bought a boat, not expecting to make any money… maybe I could become a commercial deep sea fisherman, I don't know. I went out and spent quite a bit of money on a PR firm. That's actually going pretty good, but if you're hiring a PR firm - one, you are setting money on fire. You're just hoping somebody sees the freaking fire. Please see the smoke from the fire that I have set with his money.

Now, everybody complains, Well, I hired a PR firm, but I'm doing all the work. They're doing a lot of work too. Half of their job is to just get you to a place where you can do the work. I say it's like hiring a Sherpa, they're gonna carry a lot of stuff up the mountain with you, but you have to climb the mountain. That's helping a lot. And you just have to keep at it. It's a job. I get on Facebook, my wife's like, What are you doing? You're on Facebook. Well, I’m working.

Mindy: I'm working as a substitute, and I will be in the school and a kiddo can come to my desk, and they’ll be like uhhhh, you’re on Facebook. And it's like, I'm working. We're gonna do sustained silent reading for five hours, kids. I'm really curious about your experience with PR, because I think that you're right, people misunderstand what it is and what it's about and how it works. I think it's very similar to an agent because it's your agent's job to get you in front of the editors, but your work still has to sell itself. So I feel like with PR, it's their job to get you in front of people that can get you noticed, but then you have to produce the content or the video, or do the interview, or do whatever it is that's going to get attention.

Robert: That's exactly the case. You're also the one that's getting yourself in front of things, but you've got the PR back up. And that's the other nice thing about having the subtle difference between self-publishing and independent or small press publishing. Matt's a traditional publisher. He's a traditional publishing house, he's just a very, very small publishing house, he's not under one of the Big Five. So for me, it's kind of nice to be able to say, my publisher’s doing this, or my Publicist is doing that. Somebody just reached out, I think on Instagram, and was like, Hey, do you need to help promoting your book? I'm like, Sure, talk to my Publicist. I’m on Facebook working, and somebody said, Hey, I need a novelist to sit in on a panel at WonderCon. I message the guy and gave him my credentials, and he's like, Yeah, let's do that. He was another AgentQuery person. Two cool things happened. 

One is that I was at an artist booth, and I was telling them about the book and somebody standing next to me got this weird look on her face and said, I've heard of that. She had not been to the panel, we couldn't figure out how she heard of it, whether she heard of it because of me doing stuff, or whether she heard of it because of the PR doing stuff. I just love the fact that a complete stranger had heard about my book – so something's working. Also, I sat in on another panel and there was a guy from SciFi radio, and he said, if anybody's got an audio book, come up and talk to me. I just finished editing the audio book, which about killed me. And so I went up and I got myself a gig. A lot of writers would say, Well, my Publicist didn't get me that gig, I got that gig. Yeah, but when I emailed the guy, I’m gonna copy my publicist. And two, I had a killer press kit to send to him. I had back up. 

Matt: It gives you legitimacy. Someone else thinks that this is a quality book, this is a quality writer. So I think that has a lot to do with it as well. It's some of the legitimacy that you get when you have an agent. Yes, it's an extra level of security for anyone who books you. It's a good investment. 

Robert: That's the other thing too, is that just because you have the money to hire a publicist. I’m not rolling in it. No, I just had some money saved up. Just because you have the money doesn't mean a Publicist is gonna take you on. I got turned down by three or four different Publicists because they didn't do SciFi, they didn't have space. It's like getting an agent, they've gotta like your work.

Mindy: I have not taken that step of hiring an outside publicist yet, it's something that I considered multiple times for different books of mine. I've never been in a position where I've had the money that I could just be like, Yeah, I'm gonna spend it on this. And I've heard wonderful success stories from people that invested that money and did very, very well because of it, and then I've heard from people that really felt like they had just thrown their money down a black hole. So you've gotta do your research, you have to know that the people that you're giving your money to are going to be worth it, and that they've got those credentials themselves. But also like you're saying, you've got to be ready to do that work. It's them laying the groundwork for you to be able to prove yourself, you still have to show up, and prove yourself.

Robert: You work your behind off on PR, Mindy, so you're doing a lot of the work and you've done it for so long. You've got your own ground work. There really is a thing you have to figure out for each different platform.

Matt: And Mindy has established a brand as well. Whether she did that consciously,  I think her books are all consistent. They can be different genres, but they all sound like Mindy McGinnis. And that's very much to her credit. And that's how her publicity efforts appear to be too, and that's what we're trying to do with Robert's books. 

Robert: The other thing too, is you write so fast. Oh my God, you write faster than I can read. But also, I’m dyslexic. So, you know. 

Mindy: Yeah, I do write fast. What's interesting, 'cause you're just seeing the trad side. So it's like I write very fast, but then if you consider it- since 2018, under a pen name, I put out (with other writers... Let's be clear) With co-authors, I've put out about 20 books. I write very fast. It is a skill that I have built over time. It's partly because I was working full-time. I think I was probably five years into a trad career before I was able to say, I am gonna work from home. And it was still not an easy decision, it was a risky move, and I've been able to do it. For the longest time I was writing in stolen moments. I was writing in the doctor's office. I literally had my feet in the stirrups, getting my Pap last year with my laptop across my knees and they're like, Are you good? I'm like, I'm great. You do what you need to do. That's who I am and that's how I operate. So when I do have free time, I'm like, Well, I'm gonna write and I can write 3000-4000 words in about an hour and a half.

Robert: I hate you.  I hate you.  I hate you.

Matt: I'm basically the anti-Mindy. This is the first book we've published since the pandemic. A big part of that is because the majority of what I did for Elephant’s Bookshelf was at lunch time at my day job and on my commute to and from New York City. People ask, where is your office? I said, first car in New Jersey transit from the 609. That's where I did almost all my Elephant’s Bookshelf  work. And then on my 12-hour EMS shift, I would put in several hours twice a month, and that was how I'd get the advertising research done. Stolen moments is the right way to put it, you do what you can when you can, and to the best of your ability.

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Mindy: So tell me a little bit about getting started as an Indie, I know that you were just getting your feet underneath you, and that things were going pretty well, and then the pandemic hit.. So just tell us a little bit about EBP in general, how you built it and how it's going today.

Matt: Well, the two of you are part of the beginning of Elephant’s Bookshelf. It started with two other writers, Rob Grindstaff has been doing a good job of promoting his new books, also was part of my initial team looking at the short stories that became Spring Fevers. It started from AgentQuery Connect. We just shared some messages between myself and Rob and Cat Woods - ebook publishing is getting pretty hot, this is interesting, we should look into this, and let's all collect writers that we trust, basically have them write some short stories and let's see what we can do with it. And for years before that, I have been thinking about creating a magazine, like basically a literary journal, 'cause I work in the magazine world essentially. So the idea of just organizing it appealed to me and I said, Alright, I'll serve as the publisher, I know more about writing than I do about publishing. I don't think I actually said How hard could it be? 

Robert: Oh, the number of times I have said that about something.

Matt: From there to “how hard could it be” is something that emerged over time. I quickly realized that I had to spend a lot more time learning how to be a publisher, becoming a better editor and still trying to write as best I could. In terms of the fiction, personally, I don't wanna say I lost a decade, but I spent a lot less time writing than I would like, and I know that I'll get back to it, I have ideas that just don't leave my head. 5000 words here, 10000 words there. I know I will be able to complete them. The publishing journey is something that continually evolves, you're continually learning from every success and from every failure, and from every mistake. And I spent a lot of money just trying to get the right tools to get these books out in front of people. I think the best part is just learning, I enjoy learning.

Mindy: How did the pandemic affect the small publishing world? What has it been like? How did you have to shift?

Matt: When the pandemic struck, we had just had our first writer event, if you will. Basically, Valentine's week 2020. Four writers, myself included. promoting the last short story collection, Flight, which was science fiction. And Robert actually briefly contemplated flying in from California for it, which shocked the heck out of me, I'll tell you. I wasn't even asking him about it, as he lives in California, but we had a great time. We had a great response with the Q and A. I felt like we were really developing a readership, just right in front of my eyes there, and I could see where it was going, and one of the other writers, he and his wife and I went out after the event. Elephant’s Bookshelf is gonna really take off now, and then within a month, we had the pandemic taking away everything. As I said, it was difficult for me to find time to do things, to promote things, it made advertising more crucial. And we did okay, initially. You had more people with time to read, but reaching them was just as difficult, and then you couldn't go out and promote in the way that I was just starting to enjoy doing. It was hard, I suspect that's true for many other independent publishers, and probably some had greater success 'cause they had more time to concentrate differently.

Mindy: One of the things that you have to do to balance is of course, where you're putting your time. That's the biggest thing for me as a writer who also is self-published, the money that I'm putting into it is a question on the self-pub side, the time is a question on the trad pub side, but you kinda have to balance both of those things.

Matt: And you have to balance family. One of the things that I loved about the pandemic, and it sounds weird just to say that sentence, is I got a chance to coach my daughter Kathleen's soccer team. And that's the time I wouldn't have had if not for the global pandemic. That was valuable to me. You're absolutely right that it's a give and take in terms of time and where your priorities are at that point in time. I think that from a writer standpoint, there's probably stuff that will emerge from these two years that I can't even imagine right now. I've often wondered even before the pandemic, how is it that people forgot basically about the flu pandemic a little over a century ago? There's very little in writing in the novels of the time, I couldn't imagine that happening after this pandemic, we're seeing writing with The covid story as a key element already.

Robert: They did outlaw spittoons.

Matt: You can no longer spit on the sidewalk.

Mindy: You sure can where I live. And then I wanna say really quick, you talked a few times about your short story collections that EBP has, so I have a short story in each of the collections that is based on seasons. I always see The Fall, which is called The Fall: Tales From the Apocalypse. I'm looking at my Amazon author page right now. Your author page is listing like what's selling the best, Right? So right now, there's $1.99 Kindle deal on Heroine, so it's in front, followed by my book that tends to always sell the best no matter what. Then my two newest. Two that I did not expect to see sitting here – my fantasies are here, which is surprising. I've been doing a lot of school visits, so that's probably why. Even before one, two, three… in front of three of my trad pub books is The Fall: Tales From the Apocalypse, which is the short story collection from EBP. That one is always showing up for me, it seems to always be doing well, what do you credit that to?

Matt: Honestly, I think one of the big things that I would credit that to is, if you remember the final story in that collection was a short story written by a South African writer named Judy Krume. The story is very dark, it's basically about the South American shaman, the tribe is restless, if you will, and it's very graphic, and I remember I was thinking, Alright, don't put my story after that. I was like, You know what, no one will ever read my story, if I did that because people are not going to read past that story. So it became a quick decision as to where to put it. Judy sent a copy to one of the Good Reads groups and said, I think this would be an interesting book for you to review, somehow got them to make it their book of the month, and that was what got it, the initial bump. That's how I see it. That's 2012. We published that 10 years ago in the fall. I tried to publish it on the Mayan calendar end of the world, that was the pub date, and ironically enough, it was also when Hurricane Sandy wiped me out in New Jersey. We did a little bit of publicity right after that, calling attention to the fact that the publisher's home was knocked off the grid for two weeks, just as this book was going live. I had Jean Oram push this across, I went up to my first aid squad, which had a generator and sent her a quick email just saying, here's all the files. Can you finish this? It's already done, I just had to basically press Publish. And so she did that because she was the editor for that particular edition. Got a little bit of a bump from the Good Reads group. 

And then again, I mentioned KDP Rocket. I got good categories on that particular one, it's a post-apocalyptic story, as you alluded to earlier, Robert, it had a shelf, it was easy to publicize. Honestly, it was one of the reasons I chose to do science fiction for Flight. It's one of the reasons I chose to do urban fantasy, which actually the urban fantasy didn't really do well. The Horror collection has done okay at times, that is a cover issue, probably need to change that cover. The Fall has done very well, it's been very consistent, and I owe that basically to readers. that's what it comes down to, there's an audience for that type of story, that type of book.

Mindy: The last thing: where can listeners find you online? Where they can find Robert, your books online? And then Matt where people can find EBP and where they can find Kiya and the Morian Treasure, and if they're interested in submitting, where they can submit.

Robert: Best place to find me is on Facebook, RS Mellette. As far as where to get the book, you can get the book anywhere books are sold. So go down to your local independent book store and have a chat with them and have them order it. Bezos does not need to send another celebrity into space. He can, that's fine. I don't care, but I just assume that that local bookstore owner gets to feed their family.

Matt: And you can find Elephant’s Bookshelf Press at Elephant’s Bookshelf Press dot com. That's the primary place. You can also, if you're a writer and you're going to send something to be considered, you can send it to submissions@elephantsbookshelfpress.com. As Robert said, wherever fine books are sold. 

Robert: And even some so-so books. 

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Lyn Liao Butler on Debuting During the Pandemic & Research When Writing Literature of Place

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Mindy: We’re here with Lyn Liao Butler, author of The Tiger Mom’s Tale and the Red Thread of Fate, which will be coming out February 8th. First thing I'd really like to talk about is Your debut, The Tiger Mom’s Tale, which came out in July of 2021. And I know that it did very well. I remember seeing it many places and hearing about it repeatedly. What is that experience like as a debut author to have a fairly spectacular debut?

Lyn: I’m glad you say that because I didn't think it was that spectacular, actually. So I guess everything is subjective, just like publishing, right? I think my publicity and marketing team - I'm with Berkeley - they did an amazing job. You're right. The book was everywhere, and it still is kind of. I was just traveling and saw in airports everywhere, so they did a great job getting the book out. I don't know about sales per se, but, but I had to wait two years from the time that it was sold for it to come out because of the pandemic. So it was just anticlimactic by the time it came out. Definitely an exciting time. 

Mindy: Absolutely. I don't know about sales. That's something that the average reader and the average listener may not know is that we don't always have a good handle on how well our own books are actually performing. Visibility really can feel like one of the only measurements of success in my experience. Like being inside of publishing, we talk about buzz a lot in the industry, and I can see the inside of the publishing industry. This book had really big buzz. Like I've been seeing this cover for two years. I don't know. There is some frustration there, isn't there because you don't always know how well you are are not actually doing?

Lyn: And then the different places that you can check are always different, like they're never the same numbers and then the numbers that your publisher has. So yeah, you never really know. And nobody really gives you the full answer. I guess until you get your first royalty statement or something. But that hasn't happened yet for me. So, um, it's very true.

Mindy: And when you get your royalty statement. Even then, those numbers are six months old by the time you get it. 

Lyn: Right, exactly. So it's good to hear you say that there was buzz because I think they did create a lot of buzz for it, And I think one of the reasons probably is because we waited this long to get the book. 

Mindy: So, of course, like you said, Covid played a role in your release and in the timing, and there was a delay for you. Covid has been hard on everyone in so many different ways. I mean, I talk about my experiences and how my life changed because of it. But in the large picture, as someone who is self employed and works from home already, I wasn't impacted greatly. But debut authors in that late 2019 / 2020 period and then in the first, like probably 6 to 7 months if not all of 2021 definitely were impacted. I remember thinking as an author that has already had, like, 10 books out when Covid hit. Thank God I'm not a debut. So can you talk a little bit about the experience of debuting during the pandemic? 

Lyn: So back in December of 2019, a group of us - the 2020 debuts - met up for holiday drinks and, you know, dinner and we were all celebrating like our debuts are about to start. We're so excited. We're going to go to each other's debuts because we were all in New York City and then we went to like two. And then the pandemic hit and everything shut down. And I just felt so bad for my friends that debuted in March, April, May of 2020. Like the whole 2020 everything that they planned -  in person events, everything was canceled. 

And then my book got pushed back Into 2021 early 2021, and they got pushed back even more into summer. And you know, looking back, it was hard to wait that long, but at the same time, just watching the 2020's coming out and having to adjust to virtual events and just basically seeing their dreams for what they wanted on their debut day not happening. I did end up in July 2021. I was able to have an outdoor in person launch event as well as the virtual, so it was better for me. I guess. So, in a way, it kind of worked out, I think better for me. But it was a very hard time to debut, like no doubt about it. And sales kind of reflected that because a lot of the events got canceled. You weren't able to go and launch your book and market it. So it's been tough. 

Mindy: Not only do you have the issue of having to cancel in person events and anything that your publisher had planned for you, but also promotions and everything that you were hoping to kind of make a wave with. As the debut author now, suddenly so many of our tools have been taken away from you. And there were tools that you hadn't really had a chance to even adjust to holding them in your hands yet. And now you don't even have them.

Lyn: Even something simple as just going to a bookstore and seeing your book like a lot of them didn't get to see it until I think 2021. 

Mindy: Yeah, that's super impactful. I would imagine that if there are people who have been financially impacted and they want to buy a book they're more than likely going to rely on their old favorites and people that they know, authors that they know, rather than take a chance and buy a book by a debut author. Because again, if you're coming out, if you're debuting with a hard cover, those are going to be expensive and you don't have all of the purchasing options. 

I know that you said you haven't had a royalty statement yet. I'm interested once I have all the data to see if audio books or e book sales have gone up. If people are not able to go to a bookstore anymore, if they're going to go to the E book. My sales have always been very solidly on the physical book side. 

Lyn: I have no idea. You're right. Very interesting to see once you get an idea.

Mindy: Beyond publishing, talking about the writing experience and what it was like to write, you have been a professional ballet and a modern dancer. You're still a personal trainer, fitness instructor, a yoga instructor. You have a very, very active physical life. So what made you decide I think I want to try writing?

Lyn: I've always been an avid reader. We moved here to the States when I was seven from Taiwan, and one of the ways my mom helped us to read was to go to the library and get books. And from the moment I got my first book, I was hooked. So I read all the time and I still read all the time. But the best thing in my life is having a good meal while reading. Like I don't want to talk to anyone. I just want to read. And so I lived in New York City for many years, like over a decade, and, you know, I was dancing professionally, and when I moved out the city after I got married, I was only in the suburbs. But my friends in the city called the country and they wanted to know what I was doing in the country. Like I'm not in the country. I'm in the suburbs. 

So I started a blog just to keep them updated on what I was doing and just, you know, like stories about my life. People just start saying, like how funny they were and what a great writer I was. I was like, I've never taken a writing course before or any writing workshop. I just decided, I woke up on one January 2015 and decided I'm going to write a book. I wrote a book. And it was a very bad book and I wrote it in six months. And then I started querying it in June 2015 without a single person having read it. And then I started googling how to, you know, find an agent. Then I realized I was doing everything wrong, so I joined critique groups and got critique partners, beta readers. I just decided one day I was going to write a book. 

Mindy: I think that's awesome, because it's very similar to my own experience. I always wanted to be a writer. I knew that's what I wanted to do. But I also was very dedicated to being practical. I'm a farmer's daughter and, uh, not from a long line of writers. That's not what we do, we’re farmers. I knew that I had to have a job right? I had to have a real job. I had to be able to pay the bills, so I never took any steps like you're saying towards making that a real option. I didn't take classes. I never had any sort of writers group that I attended. I just read a lot, and I really do think that that is the key. People ask me all the time, if you could give any advice to writers, what would you give? And it's very simple. Just read.

Lyn: Exactly. I mean, that's basically how I learned how to write a book, was just reading all my favorite authors and then kind of analyzing like, Okay, how do they introduce the characters? Where is the climax? If it’s a thriller, where do they start giving hints? I basically just study my favorite books, and that's how I learned to write a book. So I don't know anything about the three act structure or Save the Cat. Like I've never read any of that basically, because I read so much and across so many genres that I kind of picked up how to write a book from them.

Mindy: Verbatim. This was my experience. So my first book came out and I had a friend I had met through writers groups that was an adult author, and she sent me a message on Facebook, she said - you could teach a seminar on three act structure. And I wrote back and I was like, That's cool. What's three act structure?

Lyn: Exactly. Somebody said that to me too. Another writer friend was telling me, Oh, you did this, and this and something, in the second act. I was like, I have no idea what you're talking about.

Mindy: I love it. I love it that it is a craft that you really can just absorb. Teach yourself. So I'm curious, since you are also a professional in a very, very different arena. How did you then come to dancing? I'm sure that it was a different route, like we're talking classes from a very young age, right?

Lyn: I was a pianist and on that route where my mom like, entered me in all these contests and I was winning them all and like, you know, I played all through college, and then one day I was auditioning for something and I froze, like in the middle of a classical piece. I can't even remember what it was, but I forgot. And I realized that when you're playing classical piano and you freeze, there's no way out of it. You can't fake your way through. You can't improvise. 

And that day I decided I'm not doing this anymore. I decided I was going to focus on dance. I've always danced from a young age, but not seriously. And I decided I was gonna be a dancer because if you freeze on stage, you can just make something up. Nobody will know. My mom said, you know, typical Asian parents, they wanted me to get a real job that pays well. And my mom said, Okay, we'll give you two years after college. We'll help support you. If you don't make it as a dancer in New York City, then you have to get a real job. 

I was lucky I did get cast in a bunch of shows and ballet companies and modern dance companies, and I did that. And while I was doing that, I started training people because I needed a job that paid money but was flexible, and I tried waitressing. But you know you're on your feet. You're dancing eight hours a day and then you're on your feet 6 to 7 more hours. It was just too much. And since I knew so much about the body. I got my certification. And then from there I owned a gym in the city, became a fitness instructor and then a yoga instructor. And it's a really great balance to writing I find, because I can get up, go teach a class torture people yell at them or ohm and relax them. And then I come back. My head is cleared because I've done something physical and makes it such a great balance from writing for me. 

Mindy: I also played piano. we have a lot in common. I played piano from a very, very young age, and you are right, Boy, when you lose it, it's gone. 

Lyn: There's no there's no coming back.

Mindy: You can't find it again. You don't know where you were and you're just sitting there staring at this machine that has 88 buttons on it, and you're just like…

Lyn: I mean, I was lucky. It was an audition and not a concert, and I think that was when I just stood up and I said to them, I’m done. And they're like, Well, you can start over if you want to start again. I was like I'm done and I walked off.

Mindy: There's nothing more intense, but as someone that did competitions and recitals and concerts, those competitions, there is nothing like it. I am from the country. Like there's nothing out here except corn and deer, and we would go to a college campus. You know, it seemed like the biggest city in the world, and you walk into a room and it's you and a panel of judges and a piano. 

Lyn: Exactly. And that's it.

Mindy: And you sit down and you better get it freaking right because it's on you and only you and no one is coming to save you like there's that's it.

Lyn: And its classical. So everybody knows exactly what it's supposed to sound like. So if you make a mistake or you make something up, they know. 

Mindy: No, there's no getting away from it. And in the competitions that I did, you didn't have your music and they had their music in front of them. So you better deliver. I got out of it earlier. I was in high school, I was getting older, and I wanted to be focusing more on my athleticism. When you play piano that seriously, it's like I would practice three or four hours a day, right? 

Lyn: Right, Exactly.

Mindy: No more doing that. But I do think it was so fundamental to my development, even as a small child, to be like, Okay, this is on me and only me. No one is helping me, and I have to do this on my own. And it's terrifying.

Lyn: But also, I think, it made us, I think, prepared for the publishing world a little bit more than maybe other people. I also find that my dancing was because you'd go to cattle calls in your city where there's like hundreds of girls all trying out for one spot, and they just go down the line and say, No, you're too tall, You're too fat, You're too Asian. You're too, you know, white. You're too black or you're too brown. And they just like without even watching or like you can't dance, you know, you suck, and it's just such a you know, they call it a cattle call for a reason. That I think it helped me build up that thick skin for rejections. When it comes to the publishing world, you absolutely must have a thick skin.

Mindy: And you were already operating inside of the entertainment industry where it will kill you if you don't.

Lyn: And same with publishing. I know I talked to A lot of new authors who are like I have to show my work to someone? I don't want to show them. I'm like, Well, that's the whole point of writing a book is that readers are going to review them and most of the time, everybody gets ripped apart in some way. No matter how good your book is, somebody is going to hate it. And if you're not ready to show it to the world and maybe you're not ready for the publishing world.

Mindy: Absolutely. And that's something that I tell people all of the time is that the rejection never stops. You may be accepted by an agent and then a publisher, and then you get published. And now you have however, many people there are in the world possibilities of rejection. So many things, I think, tie into the ability to put yourself on the line. You know, we might be behind the laptop. But those those darts still hurt.

Lyn: People say, Don't read your reviews. I did read them up until I guess, like right after publishing, because then there's just too many, like I didn't want to keep up with it anymore. I actually started doing something on my Instagram. I got the idea from - I don't know if you heard or Sally Hepworth. She's like a domestic thriller. I found her because I saw her video on Instagram where she does these things called One Star Fridays. Well, she'll read them out. She's completely respects whoever rates it. She's just saying This is what they say, kind of relive it, share it with the audience and then it's out. It's out there. So I started doing them, and it's actually very freeing because, you know, you get comments like - this is the worst book I have ever read, and then it just kind of makes you laugh like Oh my God, somebody thinks my book is the worst book that they’ve ever read. Not making fun of the reviewer. I completely respect them for their opinion. Just the fact that they can even write that, um and then I just share it and, you know, people are trying to defend me. I'm like, No, it's okay. I'm okay. It's really fine. 

Mindy: I really like that. I think that's really cool. I read my reviews when I was first published. Where I land on reviews is that, you know, good reviews just kind of make you pat yourself on the back and not necessarily continue to push or grow forward as a writer. And bad reviews just make you feel shitty. 

Lyn: Unless you can laugh at them, then it's, you know, then it's okay. I'm reading these reviews and they're like, It's completely unbelievable! And then I’m like, Well, yeah, it's a novel!

Mindy: I have had the experience of - and I talked about this with another guest that I had on recently - is that there are some things that, perhaps may be unbelievable, but they're in service of the plot. So, for example, I read a thriller that was set at a school very recently, and it was this very well reviewed book and everyone loved it and thought it was great. It wasn’t YA. It was about the adult staff and I was reading it and getting irritated because I worked in a school for 14 years and so many things about how a school functions and interactions between staff and students are managed and even interactions between staff and staff. No, like no, no, that would never happen. No, that is wrong, you know, and like getting vaguely upset about it and then having to go - It doesn't matter, because No one wants to read a book about the daily operation of a school. It is boring.

Lyn: Yes. But at the same time, I do as a writer try to get like, if I'm writing about school, I'll try to get those details, you know, as correct as possible. I just set a book in Kauai and we went - This is the best thing we ever did in the pandemic. We went to Kaui and lived there for two months earlier this year because we knew we were going to be in lockdown again in New York, and I was like, If you want to be locked down. We might as well just do it in Hawaii. So, you know, we went there and I did research. So I do try to get the details of certain things Like I needed a rescue mission, you know, somebody falls into a river. I realized I got the details of that completely wrong. So if I had published it that way, if somebody read it that knows about Hawaii. They're going to be like, That's not right. 

Mindy: I mean, I totally agree. I do the best that I absolutely can to make sure that it is as accurate as it can be, but at the same time. So, for example, you're talking about a rescue mission where someone is falling into the water. You don't have to convince A search and rescue operation person that you know what you're talking about because let's just take a stab. Let’s say that people that work in search and rescue for their professional living, Let's just pretend that's .05% of the population. How many of those .05 are even readers? And then how many of that percentage is actually going to pick up your book? You're not writing it for the professionals to read it and go Damn, she got that right. Like you're writing for the average reader to believe that you know what you're talking about, right? 

Lyn: Exactly. 

Mindy: But at the same time, you do everything you can to make sure it's right, because, I mean, just for me, it comes down to not being lazy. There will be scenes in a book where a body has been found. The coroner doesn't show up first and take the body. Like no one has showed up and taken pictures. You need to try a little harder.As someone that is not in that profession, I’m looking at it going. I am like 99% sure that's not right. 

Lyn: Exactly. You want to get at least the basics right? So that average people read it. They aren't going to be like - that's not right. But I love researching for books, and I always tell people like I try to set books where I want to go. To travel to. And then I'll set up there and then go and do research, and now it becomes a business trip.

Mindy: That’s very smart. I'm actually going to Hawaii next week. Friends from college, a couple of us got divorced right around the same time and we planned a trip to get our funk out. And it got canceled because of Covid. So we ended up being able to put it back together. And next week I’m going to Hawaii.

Lyn: I actually just got back from Hawaii. Last week. I was going to the Kauai writers conference, and then the minute I booked everything, it got canceled. But then my agent sold the book that I set in Hawaii. So I just just decided to go and, you know, just hang out and get the culture and everything again. So it was great. You're gonna have a great time.

Mindy: That's wonderful. I'm excited about it. It's amazing to me how things have opened up for us as authors. You have the ability to go and do this research that adds, like a whole layer - like don't get me wrong. Everything about it is going to be more visceral because you have been there and you know, but um I remember when I was writing my second book, which takes place across like, this apocalyptic version of most of the United States. At some point, they end up in Nebraska, and I'm like, Okay, what the hell does Nebraska look like? They're going to be in Nebraska for, like, one chapter. So am I going to fly to Nebraska? Probably not. I have Google Maps, and I can take my little person and drop them down for the 360 view and look around and be like, this is what Nebraska looks like. Okay, I got it.

Lyn: That's a great thing about the Internet. Now you can google anything. But, you know, my book is actually completely set there, and the stuff that happens, it happens at a specific location during a certain kind of thunderstorm and stuff so that it was great to be there. But I have a book that I'm working on, that's part of is set in Oklahoma, and I'm like, Yeah, I probably won't fly to Oklahoma. I'll do research on it and, you know, ask people who have lived there because it's not a big part of it. But if it was, I probably would if it got sold. I love to travel.

Mindy: I do, too, And it's been hard to not be able to do that lately. So, um and I will say, Actually, it is interesting the things that you pick up on when you are in a space physically like you're there. When I was in Oklahoma, you know, something that I probably never would have seen in pictures or had someone talk about but what my takeaway of it was, and I didn't even consider this - they grow a lot of cotton in Oklahoma, and I didn't know that. And when they harvest it and there's wind, there's literally just cotton everywhere and it's blowing around and there's little like spider webs of cotton sticking in all of the trees. And it's like accumulating in the ditches. And it's just nothing I have ever seen before in my life. It's like a weird little environmental miracle to me, and they're just like, Oh, yeah, I mean, it's just cotton to them.

Lyn: That’s really funny.

Mindy: They think nothing of it.

Lyn: I'm gonna have to file that away for, you know, for future reference. 

Mindy: Like I said, I worked in the school, and whenever we have an international student that has never seen snow before and it starts snowing, class just stops and everybody gets to go outside so that this individual gets to experience snow. That's what the Cotton was like for me.

Lyn: Every different area has their own little thing that’s very interesting. And that's also why I love to read books because getting transported to these places and like you might not ever go to. So now I learned something about Oklahoma that's going to stick with me. 

Mindy: So let's talk really quick about the book that you have coming out in February. Red Thread of Fate, which has a gorgeous cover. I just discovered it, and it's pretty amazing. 

Lyn: It's actually about a kind of family that is not through blood. So a woman named Tam and her husband are about to adopt a little boy from an orphanage in China, and then the husband and his estranged cousin are killed in a freak accident, and she’s suddenly left the guardian of the cousins. A five year old daughter as well as trying to decide if she's going to complete the adoption. And it kind of delves into the adoption process from China and the special bond that the caretakers, the nannies that work in the orphanages have with the children. It's inspired by my husband and my journey, when we adopted our little boy. It's not our story. It's completely different. But the journey itself was inspired by what we went through, and it's just my way of just kind of showing how like families can, you know you're tied together by this red thread. It could be by blood. It could be through adoption or whether it's through a love interest or mother daughter, son, how people are just tied together. I'm very excited about this book.

Mindy: People use the phrase like found family. I feel like it can go.. I'm going to use the phrase deeper than that. But also even a wider net, like I know as someone that grew up in a really small area, very, very tiny community and then worked in the school that I attended as a student. I would have students that were, you know, the Children of my classmates. And even if they were classmates that I had not seen in 15, 20 years, I would look at that student and number one - I immediately know it's their child. But I also have, like this affinity for that person simply because I had a relationship with her parent. 

Lyn: Exactly. And that was the point of this book that you know, you have these threads or things that connect you to other people. And a lot of times, you know, it's maybe not family, but you're just drawn to someone for some reason and how you're all just connected by fate somehow. I love this book because I just feel like it gets deeper into a subject that a lot of people don't talk about. And there's also, you know, family secrets. And I think my editor was the one that said it was surprisingly thrilling, and one of the early reviews I got was like, Yeah, there's like elements of suspense and thriller in there and I didn't realize I did that, so it's kind of interesting how people perceived it. 

Mindy: It's nice when you achieve something you didn't mean to, right?

Lyn: Yeah. So it was very funny that more than one person said that. And I remember when I was querying this book one of the agents said to me, You wrote a really fast paced thriller and I'm going, What are you talking about? I didn't write a thriller. I was like, It's more women's fiction. And now that my editors said that I’m like,  Oh, I guess there are elements of thriller-ish in there. 

Mindy: It's really funny because I've had the experience of having my books read by college classes and I'll go in and I'll speak to them and occasionally someone will be like, I loved how you used the elements of the Furies in this and you wove in all of this Greek mythology and I'm like, I really, really didn’t mean to. I would love to just nod sagely and be like, Yes, I'm glad you picked up on that, and I'm just like I meant to do that. I'm really honest. I'm just like it is really cool that you think I'm that smart.

Lyn: Like they say, once you write, the book it’s out there. It becomes the reader's book and how they want to interpret it. 

Mindy: Totally, totally agreed. Last thing, why don't you let listeners know where they can find you online and where they can buy your books?

Lyn: I made it easy. You can just find me anywhere at Lynn Liao Butler,  just all three names together on Twitter, Instagram, Facebook. It's all the same. My website is LynnLiaoButlerdotcom. So I just made it easy for everybody. And my books are basically sold anywhere. You can buy books online and book stores there in a lot of airports right now. So, like I said from Hawaii I laid over in LAX and I found my book in five different kiosks at the airport, and I was just literally running through the airport taking pictures of myself in the book. They must have been like, What is this woman doing?? It's really exciting. 

Mindy: I read a story one time about Neil Gaiman moving through an airport. I don't remember where he was, but he stopped and there was, I think it was his Norse Mythology book and he just like a stealth signed the copies. And then he He was like sitting at his gate and he tweeted, You know, Hey, I signed all the copies at this location, this wing of the airport and, like, people started running.

Lyn: Yeah, I'm not at that level yet.

Mindy: No, me neither. But he was just like he was like, Oh God, like, is there some sort of like red alert terror alarm? It's like No, it was your tweet.

Lyn: That’s hysterical.

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